- It took me 18 months to reach my first major breakthrough (268 days, which I then lost – and that setback caused a massive OCD relapse).
- More people today are likely addicted to some form of cybersex behaviour (adult websites, sexting, etc.) than there were smokers in the era when you could smoke cigarettes with your doctor. I want you to truly think about that.
- The world 🌎 does not want to talk about how big of a problem this is because it is a multi-billion-dollar industry.
- Overuse of adult content can absolutely cause isolation.
- Overuse of adult content can absolutely increase your chances of ED – or the opposite, where you struggle to finish, and that frustrates your partner.
- I no longer feel like a lion on the prowl looking to shred a gazelle to pieces. When you’re consuming adult content for 30 minutes every day, you become hypersexualised.
- There is probably a strong correlation between daily adult website use and increased rates of cheating. I mean… no shit 🤣
- It’s no longer primarily a male issue. I have many women who open up to me about their struggles with adult content and toys.
- I chose to do NoFap as well because I couldn’t balance masturbation.
- My sex life is 1000% better. You won’t fully experience this until you are 1-2 years away from adult content. Sure, you may see some initial positive effects, but when you’re two years out, you realise how trapped you were – like with any drug.
- My favourite question to ask people who cheat is this: “When you orgasm, what are the first few thoughts that go through your mind?” The answers are comically similar: “Ugh, please no,” or “What the fuck am I doing?”
- Sex is great, but if you speak to people who constantly chase it, they’re typically not that happy.
- The normalisation of ED meds is not good.
- Women who can’t orgasm without toys – not good.
- The majority of dating advice online is absolutely atrocious.
- I rarely meet anyone who can balance adult websites. I’m sure there are unicorns out there, but I haven’t met them yet.
- High adult content usage typically leads to other low-frustration-tolerance behaviours.
- I rarely see healthy marriages where one or both partners use adult websites daily. Again, I’m sure they’re out there, but they are certainly not the norm.
- The more adult content you consume, the more you begin to see humans as objects for sexual desire rather than as complex people.
- Adult content is acting. Let me say that again: it is acting. There are documentaries from the 2000s about the industry, and they are quite sad.
- Performers in the adult industry face significantly higher mental health struggles than many other professions.
- If you look at the current subscription rates on OnlyFans, it is very telling where we are as a society.
- Quitting adult websites was single-handedly one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
- I’m not scared of relapses – but I’m not going back 🤣
- The problems we have now will probably be 2-5x worse over the next 3-5 years because of AI and sex robots. It’s coming.
